Repost : When I Had a Daughter (in honour of Meg’s Birthday)

When I had a daughter,

I only had her for four days.

She wasn’t really mine, just “on loan” from my sister.

We went on a trip, her and I

and laughed

and talked

and walked arm in arm down streets that weren’t our own.

And even though she wasn’t “mine”,

while I had her I pretended she was my own.

Now I’ve never had a strong urge to procreate, admittedly for purely selfish reasons. I found the potential mess,

and the unavoidable cost

and the *gulp* ultimate responsibility overwhelming to consider

and throughout the years being an “auntie” created just the right amount of opportunity to satisfy whatever miniscule amount of motherly instinct

existing in my cells.

But

this week when people asked “how old is your daughter?” I didn’t correct them,

and I felt a wonderful warm flutter in my heart that they had made the mistake.

My niece is tall and beautiful and smart and I was honoured that someone had thought

I

was responsible for her existence.

And it made me a little sad when we returned home and I had to return her to her mother,

and go back to my home

without

that extra heartbeat that had been keeping me company all week.

Advertisements

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s